Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Just like Mom
I'm doing some end of the year, housecleaning on my blogs. This is a repost from my other blog - Lessons on the Cheap. I think it belongs more on this blog.
Just like my Mom
I came from the traditional 2 parent family. I was the oldest. Mom was a 60's homemaker and Dad was the breadwinner. It worked for me. I had Mom home when I needed her and we were close. She made home such a special place to be. Even when I would come home from lunch, at school, I always hated to go back to school. I would of made a good homeschooling student.
Every morning Mom would get up early with my Dad. Make the coffee and get the newspaper. Dad would be in the shower. He came out to find, Mom had made him breakfast. Some mornings, he might skip...Mom always had 2 pieces of toast with her coffee. Dad would leave and Mom would have maybe 30 minutes before she would get me up. Not a big breakfast eater, she would have a pan of hot chocolate for me. (made with real Nestle Quik) She made it the best and to this day, it's not as good as hers!
Depending on what day of the week it was, she had her "to do" list. Mondays she always had some errands; the cleaners, grocery store, post office. It also was laundry day. Tuesday she did the ironing. She would leave out the pillow cases for me, so that I could learn. I loved ironing pillowcases. Fridays, was BIG grocery shopping day. She would go over the sales in the paper. Plan out the menu. And we'd have either Spaghetti, goulash and garlic bread or Chili for dinner. Sunday's we always had steak!
I wanted to be just like my Mom. I wanted to get married, have children ( a lot of them) stay at home with them and raise them up. Of course, since I was living during the very beginning of "women's rights" I didn't dare say anything to my friends. Even when I was "way cool" I still wanted to be at home with my children and to be a housewife, like my Mom.
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My mom, who also came of age during the thick of the early feminist movement, felt exactly the same way. She had no qualms with working (and did at various times throughout her life), but in her heart of hearts, what she truly wanted to be was a stay-at-home wife and mother. My little sister feels (she's in her early 20s and isn't married and doesn't have kids yet) the same way and I think that things are even tougher in that regard for young women these days. It has always struck me as absurd that people (especially other women!) would cast judgement on women who want to carry on the tradition of doing what our gender has excelled at since the dawn of time.
ReplyDelete♥ Jessica
I totally agree with you Jessica. I remember as a young mom, I always felt judged when I was with working women. Once I referred to myself as, "just a mom" and a strong older working woman, told me, "And that is a wonderful job to have."
DeleteYour mom looks "current" somehow. Not sixties-ish.
ReplyDeleteyeah kinda. She was about 27-28 in that picture. approximately 1961.
DeleteYou and I grew up in the same generation and the same kind of mindset--your household sounds EXACTLY like the one I grew up in. They were beautiful, simple days. And like you, all I wanted to be was a stay-at-home mom, and fortunately I was! Thanks for taking me down memory lane. Following you back via GFC!
ReplyDeleteThanks! Those were the good old days for sure.
DeleteAlso following you via Networked Blog!
ReplyDeletecool - thanks
Deletethanks for this reminder of what our moms did to make things wonderful for all of us 60's kids.
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Thanks Mrs Claus!
DeleteThanks for stopping by! Following back :)
ReplyDeleteThanks!!!
DeleteThat is so sweet
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for following. I'm a little late following back, but I am now. hope you have a fantastic 2013
Better late than never! Welcome!
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